IS IT MAY YET?

hs 2014

These are words I find I repeat every winter, all winter, and have for decades.

When the cold, the snow and icy roads become too much for me my family hears me groan those words. They don’t mind though, they, too, are anticipating the mild weather, the greening of the grass, shrubs and trees, the rich scents of the soil as the ground thaws and brings with it the renewal of optimism.

There’s nothing like celebrating the transition from winter to spring when you are surviving and thriving with a disease that you have been told is terminal. Each season brings hope and its own beauty, but spring is Spring. Nothing compares.

“It’s May, it’s May, the month of great dismay
when all the world is brimming with fun, wholesome or un-
It’s mad, it’s gay, alive a lust display
Those dreary vows that everyone takes, everyone breaks
Everyone makes divine mistakes
The Lusty Month of May”
Lady Guinevere from the musical ‘Camelot’
Alan J. Lerner and Frederick Loewe-1960

The first of May has taken on an even more important role in the course of my survivorship. On May 1st of 2014 I attended my very first National Lungevity Hope Summit. Its a mind blowing experience to go from being the only lung cancer survivor in the room to being one of 130! (Then 150 in 2015!)

Each day of each session is filled with educational programs and stories of hope from survivors who were recently diagnosed to those of survivors who’ve lived 25 years and more with this disease.

Important for me has been the educational benefits of the Summit. I learned to inquire about pulmonary rehabilitation which should be standard of care for every lung cancer patient. I learned to breathe more efficiently and strengthen the muscles that support breathing. For reasons I do not understand, this is standard of care for heart patients only. But for the Summit I might never have learned to ask.

Other components include discussions of research that Lungevity sponsors, nutrition, the social impact of surviving cancer, the psychological aspects of dealing with cancer and more.

Why do I bring this up? Why do I believe it is so important you learn about this?
Because most important of all is that I learned that I AM NOT ALONE. And neither are you if you are dealing with any type of cancer. There are similar programs for most every type of cancers if you can’t find one for your specific cancer there are still programs that are aimed to celebrate your survivorship. On June 5th many hospitals have programs celebrating National Cancer Survivors Day. If you ever have an opportunity to attend something this special do it. Take advantage of all resources available to you.

With the Hope Summit coinciding with the greening of my world and the renewal of my optimism expect to catch me belting out the lyrics next weekend.

“It’s May, It’s May, that gorgeous holiday
When every maiden prays that her lad will be a cad
It’s mad, it’s gay, alive, a lust display
Those dreary vows that everyone takes, everyone breaks
Everyone makes divine mistakes
The Lusty Month of May

Whence this fragrance wafting through the air?
What sweet feelings does it’s scent transmute?
Whence this perfume floating everywhere?
Don’t you know, it’s that dear forbidden fruit”

Group photo courtesy of LUNGevity Foundation

All others by Denise Cutlip

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